After one year of sex, I want more!

Question: Well after one year of being intimate I expressed this: Here is the exact text I sent him … “After 1year of this with you my emotions are involved AND I want AND deserve more! We have amazing chemistry AND I enjoy our time together, but it sucks when I only hear from you […]

What are the rules for (married) FWB??

Question I entered into a FWB relationship with a guy almost an year back. We both are married. I have never done this before. I don’t know if there are any rules or not. Earlier this guy used to make time for me not just to see me but for coffee, lunch etc. He started […]

I don’t want to break up, but he…

Question I was with my boyfriend for about a year and 8 months. We loved each other so much, or at least I thought. We always had a tendency to break up and get back together over stupid little things. Now we actually broke up, or so it seems, and he will not talk to […]

What’s Your Sign? (11-11-11)

This post was inspired by a movie I was watching with my wife. The gentleman was on a date arranged through a dating service. As the girl approached, she sat down with an eager, yet desperate grin which looked like it could devour any unsuspecting man who gave her a few minutes of attention. You […]

10 Reasons Why He Runs (part 2)

Yesterday we discussed 5 of the top 10 reasons why men leave or literally run from women in relationships (click here to read part 1). Here’s the anticipated continuation to our Top 10 Reasons Why He Runs… 5. PHYSIQUE – Shocker. No, it’s not number 1. How you treat a guy (other characteristics on this […]

10 Reasons Why He Runs (part 1)

There’s an old saying that men think with their private parts. Therefore, what a man wants has been misconstrued in media and magazines. What a guy wants is not ALL physical. It is important, but it is not what makes a guy stay. I surveyed a few of my friends, along with people we’ve helped […]

Experiencing True Love?

Love is not just a feeling, it is a word that requires or births action. When you give into the life of someone and/or they give into your life without needing or desiring to get something back in return (i.e. without an exchange of goods, services, or resources) you are likely experiencing true love. This […]

10 Ways To Measure Your Love

“Real love, true love is giving of oneself and one’s resources without expecting anything in return. Who did you love today?” ~Marla A. McCarthy   1. You are giving real love. You have consciously checked your own intentions for getting involved with the person you are in a relationship with. You desire to give to […]

touched her soul (without sex)

Digging through the vaults we decided to watch an old DVD last night – The Notebook. In my opinion, one of the, if not the, the best love stories captured on film (in this generation x era). This story was well written, but what really drew me in was the courtship. Yes they kissed a […]