the grass is always greener

The older I get, the more I start to appreciate the journey, versus the destination. Recently I have grown fond of working on the lawn. It is trying, testing, grueling a times in this Texas heat, but rewarding nonetheless. Last weekend I gathered some huge Flintstone type stones from a new housing development and attempted […]

Steven Seagal understands the key to life

Last night I watched one of my favorite pre-recorded shows on DVR (4th and Long). I like this show because it is about perseverance, getting second chances, and doing whatever it takes to achieve your goal. When the show was over I began doing some work on my laptop. My son had the station tuned […]

Your Perception

I recall in my younger years there were lyrics to a song that always stayed with me. While on this journey home, the artist stated – In my mind home was pictured and rest was the frame. The older I get, the more I appreciate peace. I define peace as the stillness in the moment […]

3 Keys To Success

Wifey (aka real wife recognized in a court of law…not ebonic term of endearment) and I were working our business while sharing information we acquired during the day. We usually gather data from multiple sources, then come up with our own strategies. But the consensus is there are there are 3 basic keys to success: […]

The Biggest Spiritual Loser

This post was birthed from a humorous conversation with my wife about current technology, and how I was going to go on a social network fast because I was frustrated with the time it eats. I merely log-in to check an e-mail or respond to a status update or stupid pointless application request, and before […]

flossing could salvage a relationship

My lady was looking pretty sexy sleeping, so I cleaned up anticipating waking her by gently kissing on her neck. I jumped out the shower and thought our conversation the previous day about kissing, sucking lips, fresh breath, etc. If you can’t tell by now, I plan on being pretty transparent today. Quite frankly this […]

“I got mind control over Deebo!”

There was a story on the news last night about the correlation between children watching television, and depression (due to negative influences and advertisement). It made me think about all the negative things we let influence us on a day to day basis as adults. Just take a moment and think about the course of […]

touched her soul (without sex)

Digging through the vaults we decided to watch an old DVD last night – The Notebook. In my opinion, one of the, if not the, the best love stories captured on film (in this generation x era). This story was well written, but what really drew me in was the courtship. Yes they kissed a […]

Return on Investment (TIME)

I will be the first to admit sometimes I don’t use my time wisely. I tend to get frustrated at life circumstances and knocked off kilter. Some roadblocks and life make me just pump the breaks, and want to just go play with my kids and enjoy life, play around on the net, or just […]

Ignorance is the rejection of intelligence

A friend of mine in Cleveland has been debating with a guy in my office about politics. There were some absurd comments from this young kid in my office, so my buddy sent me this email on the side that I want to share with you guys: You really can’t argue with ignorance. I’ve said […]