Why Men Won’t Commit??

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August 2007 my wife and I had this conversation about men in relationships, and why they don’t commit. She gave me the female perspective and what women think, and of course I told her the truth (lol). In any case, she called my bluff stating I tend to think different from most men, so I [...]

What’s Your Sign? (11-11-11)

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This post was inspired by a movie I was watching with my wife. The gentleman was on a date arranged through a dating service. As the girl approached, she sat down with an eager, yet desperate grin which looked like it could devour any unsuspecting man who gave her a few minutes of attention. You [...]

10 Reasons Why He Runs (part 2)

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Yesterday we discussed 5 of the top 10 reasons why men leave or literally run from women in relationships (click here to read part 1). Here’s the anticipated continuation to our Top 10 Reasons Why He Runs… 5. PHYSIQUE – Shocker. No, it’s not number 1. How you treat a guy (other characteristics on this [...]

10 Reasons Why He Runs (part 1)

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There’s an old saying that men think with their private parts. Therefore, what a man wants has been misconstrued in media and magazines. What a guy wants is not ALL physical. It is important, but it is not what makes a guy stay. I surveyed a few of my friends, along with people we’ve helped [...]

Hating 102 – Managing Haters

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Dealing with haters can be a very difficult thing. The irony in hating is most people, deep down inside, are mad at you for putting in the work that they were not willing to put in. Whatever that may be, people get mad about something they rarely know anything about. They will see what you [...]

Hating 101 – Defining Hating

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‘Hating’ and ‘haters’ are terms I am personally not fond of, but it’s one of those phrases like “my bad” which most likely will never go away. It started as urban slang (don’t hate the player, hate the game), and now has become so popular that it has now crossed all cultural boundaries. Further, it [...]

What is a real man?

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This is a very open-ended question with no deadline to respond. When you hear someone say “a real man” what is the first thing that comes to mind? How do you define a real man? What are some traits of good men? Do you associate a real man with physical strength or someone who gives [...]

what’s your social dysfunction?

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The way we communicate and socialize with each other is constantly being altered by technology. This is a true story…way too stupid for me to make up. My wife’s friend emailed her a while back with a plea for my wife to check her Facebook page, just so my wife could discover that this friend [...]

A Woman’s Heart

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Day 2 of my blog posts via cell phone trials. This is actually my third attempt, and may possibly be my last (since others have complained about this WordPress iPhone app losing posts). Instead of sitting inside of a boring office meeting, today I am outside utilizing one of the ten breaks I intend on [...]

planning for an open door

I am currently in a meeting with some vendors politely ignoring every word. I have been staring at the door anticipating when I can bolt. Figured I’d do something productive with my time and try to blog (post) via cell phone. Please forgive typos. I was talking to a friend of mine about preparing for [...]