Do I have the Holy Spirit?



I’m a Christian and do believe in the death, burial and resurrection of our Lord and Savior Jesus Christ. My question is how do I know I have the Holy Spirit in me when I do not speak in tongues.

Is it possible to have the Holy Spirit living in you and yet not speak in tongues??

Many thanks



This is a question that I am sure can be debated forever within various denominations within Christianity. But as a Christian, the best place to find and receive the answers to all of your questions concerning life and your faith is God’s Word (The Bible). So let’s look there…

I Corinthians 14 is a great chapter to read to gain understanding on what God has to say about speaking in tongues. Acts 2 may also be helpful to read and study. I would pray for clarity and understanding about your specific question before reading and trust God through the Holy Spirit to reveal the answer to you that will provide you with perfect peace on the matter. I will place the chapter below and you can read it here, and you can also use whatever translations of the Bible are easiest to understand and most helpful to you.

What I gain from this chapter is that as a Christian, there are many spiritual gifts (wisdom, knowledge, faith, healing, miracles, prophecy, discerning of spirits, speaking in tongues, and interpretation of tongues, etc.). You should focus on using the spiritual gift(s) that God has blessed you with the greatest ability and strength in, and use them for edifying others and building up the Church. (For a list of spiritual gifts see 1 Corinthians 12:8-10, Ephesians 4:7-13, and Romans 12:3-8).

Every believer has received the gift of the Holy Spirit from God, but every believer has not received ALL the spiritual gifts which the Spirit gives. All spiritual gifts are given by the Holy Spirit, not just speaking in tongues. They are all an important part of God’s plan and purpose for building the church and they are all meant to bring about spiritual unity, not division and confusion.

Operating in and using your gifts with a heart filled with love for God and others is more important than the specific spiritual gift(s) you possess. Speaking in tongues is a spiritual gift from God but not a requirement for faith (see I Corinthians 12:28-31).

Paul basically says in I Corinthians 14 that it is a gift that is helpful, a blessing to many in private worship and helpful in public worship (with interpretation). In 1 Corinthians 14:19 he states that he would rather speak five words that his hearers can understand than 10,000 that they cannot. Everything we do as Christians with our spiritual gifts should be to encourage and strengthen the faith of others.

Demonstrating the Fruit of the Holy Spirit (see Galatians 5:22-23), the way you treat others, and positively using your spiritual gifts and talents for the purpose of building up others, will demonstrate the presence of the Holy Spirit in your life.

~Wherefore by their fruits ye shall know them. (Matthew 7:20 KJV)

…We continually ask God to fill you with the knowledge of his will through all the wisdom and understanding that the Spirit gives, so that you may live a life worthy of the Lord and please him in every way: bearing fruit in every good work, growing in the knowledge of God, being strengthened with all power according to his glorious might so that you may have great endurance and patience, (Colossians 1:9-11, New International Version (NIV))

Many blessings to you on your journey,

Truth in Love


1 Corinthians 14- New International Version (NIV)

Intelligibility in Worship

1 Follow the way of love and eagerly desire gifts of the Spirit, especially prophecy. 2 For anyone who speaks in a tongue[a] does not speak to people but to God. Indeed, no one understands them; they utter mysteries by the Spirit. 3 But the one who prophesies speaks to people for their strengthening, encouraging and comfort. 4 Anyone who speaks in a tongue edifies themselves, but the one who prophesies edifies the church. 5 I would like every one of you to speak in tongues,[b] but I would rather have you prophesy. The one who prophesies is greater than the one who speaks in tongues,[c] unless someone interprets, so that the church may be edified.

6 Now, brothers and sisters, if I come to you and speak in tongues, what good will I be to you, unless I bring you some revelation or knowledge or prophecy or word of instruction? 7 Even in the case of lifeless things that make sounds, such as the pipe or harp, how will anyone know what tune is being played unless there is a distinction in the notes? 8 Again, if the trumpet does not sound a clear call, who will get ready for battle? 9 So it is with you. Unless you speak intelligible words with your tongue, how will anyone know what you are saying? You will just be speaking into the air. 10 Undoubtedly there are all sorts of languages in the world, yet none of them is without meaning. 11 If then I do not grasp the meaning of what someone is saying, I am a foreigner to the speaker, and the speaker is a foreigner to me. 12 So it is with you. Since you are eager for gifts of the Spirit, try to excel in those that build up the church.

13 For this reason the one who speaks in a tongue should pray that they may interpret what they say. 14 For if I pray in a tongue, my spirit prays, but my mind is unfruitful. 15 So what shall I do? I will pray with my spirit, but I will also pray with my understanding; I will sing with my spirit, but I will also sing with my understanding. 16 Otherwise when you are praising God in the Spirit, how can someone else, who is now put in the position of an inquirer,[d] say “Amen” to your thanksgiving, since they do not know what you are saying? 17 You are giving thanks well enough, but no one else is edified.

18 I thank God that I speak in tongues more than all of you. 19 But in the church I would rather speak five intelligible words to instruct others than ten thousand words in a tongue.

20 Brothers and sisters, stop thinking like children. In regard to evil be infants, but in your thinking be adults. 21 In the Law it is written:

“With other tongues and through the lips of foreigners I will speak to this people, but even then they will not listen to me, says the Lord.”[e]

22 Tongues, then, are a sign, not for believers but for unbelievers; prophecy, however, is not for unbelievers but for believers. 23 So if the whole church comes together and everyone speaks in tongues, and inquirers or unbelievers come in, will they not say that you are out of your mind? 24 But if an unbeliever or an inquirer comes in while everyone is prophesying, they are convicted of sin and are brought under judgment by all, 25 as the secrets of their hearts are laid bare. So they will fall down and worship God, exclaiming, “God is really among you!”

Good Order in Worship

26 What then shall we say, brothers and sisters? When you come together, each of you has a hymn, or a word of instruction, a revelation, a tongue or an interpretation. Everything must be done so that the church may be built up. 27 If anyone speaks in a tongue, two—or at the most three—should speak, one at a time, and someone must interpret. 28 If there is no interpreter, the speaker should keep quiet in the church and speak to himself and to God.

29 Two or three prophets should speak, and the others should weigh carefully what is said. 30 And if a revelation comes to someone who is sitting down, the first speaker should stop. 31 For you can all prophesy in turn so that everyone may be instructed and encouraged. 32 The spirits of prophets are subject to the control of prophets. 33 For God is not a God of disorder but of peace—as in all the congregations of the Lord’s people.

34 Women[f] should remain silent in the churches. They are not allowed to speak, but must be in submission, as the law says. 35 If they want to inquire about something, they should ask their own husbands at home; for it is disgraceful for a woman to speak in the church.[g]

36 Or did the word of God originate with you? Or are you the only people it has reached? 37 If anyone thinks they are a prophet or otherwise gifted by the Spirit, let them acknowledge that what I am writing to you is the Lord’s command. 38 But if anyone ignores this, they will themselves be ignored.[h]

39 Therefore, my brothers and sisters, be eager to prophesy, and do not forbid speaking in tongues. 40 But everything should be done in a fitting and orderly way.

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