My dad took my groove back!!

Question: I am a 42 year old divorced and single female. I have recently moved into my father’s home to care for him. He is in his 80’s and needs someone to cook and clean, etc. My son is with me, he is bipolar and just got out of a residential treatment facility for being […]

Why Men Won’t Commit??

August 2007 my wife and I had this conversation about men in relationships, and why they don’t commit. She gave me the female perspective and what women think, and of course I told her the truth (lol). In any case, she called my bluff stating I tend to think different from most men, so I […]

What’s Your Sign? (11-11-11)

This post was inspired by a movie I was watching with my wife. The gentleman was on a date arranged through a dating service. As the girl approached, she sat down with an eager, yet desperate grin which looked like it could devour any unsuspecting man who gave her a few minutes of attention. You […]

My wife won’t stop seeing her male gynecologist!

Question: Yo I need your advice on something. This story stems back about 8 years. I won’t go into all the details, but the short rundown is my wife has a male gynecologist that I am not comfortable with. Let me take it back to the beginning. When we first got married 8 years ago, […]

10 Reasons Why He Runs (part 2)

Yesterday we discussed 5 of the top 10 reasons why men leave or literally run from women in relationships (click here to read part 1). Here’s the anticipated continuation to our Top 10 Reasons Why He Runs… 5. PHYSIQUE – Shocker. No, it’s not number 1. How you treat a guy (other characteristics on this […]

10 Reasons Why He Runs (part 1)

There’s an old saying that men think with their private parts. Therefore, what a man wants has been misconstrued in media and magazines. What a guy wants is not ALL physical. It is important, but it is not what makes a guy stay. I surveyed a few of my friends, along with people we’ve helped […]

Hating 102 – Managing Haters

Dealing with haters can be a very difficult thing. The irony in hating is most people, deep down inside, are mad at you for putting in the work that they were not willing to put in. Whatever that may be, people get mad about something they rarely know anything about. They will see what you […]

Hating 101 – Defining Hating

‘Hating’ and ‘haters’ are terms I am personally not fond of, but it’s one of those phrases like “my bad” which most likely will never go away. It started as urban slang (don’t hate the player, hate the game), and now has become so popular that it has now crossed all cultural boundaries. Further, it […]

We Need a Place to Call Home!!!

Question: My life is being turned inside out again (I’ve had a difficult life at best) and I could really use some advice. My current landlord has filed for bankruptcy in May 2011 and she let the home I am renting, which I really like, to be put up for foreclosure. I am a single […]

Trouble Sleeping?

Frequently tossing and turning at night lately? Making sure that you regularly get a good night’s rest can make all the difference in your level of productivity and emotional state. Crankiness and irritability can be indicators of a lack of rest, while being well-rested will result in a better mood and better overall health. Here […]